So we at NEV C&C have actually been doing couples coaching for years but we never advertised it. Why?
I’m not entirely sure, perhaps because we already specialize in a number of things and didn’t want to cover the great expanse that this might cover.
But the results have always been truly great and so we decided it’s time to “officially” commit to this service, because hey! – we LOVE IT! ❤️
And it works. Truly. 👍
Why Couples Coaching?
Here’s some back story…
I’ve had a number of serious relationships prior to my current marriage, including a previous marriage.
However, some of those other relationships were just as serious as marriage – I’m sure you know what I mean.
You get to an age where “serious relationships“ (though I hope they’re not so serious that they’re no FUN), happen whether you’re married or not.
And there’s absolutely NO judgment there.
While I’ve definitely had my mishaps in the relationship category in the prior years, I also learned an enormous amount. And put it to good work for others.
And my current marriage is, I humbly believe, a great result of all of that learning and “struggle” – as well a lot of credit to my wonderful husband, Charlie. 🌟
Challenges for couples
The odd thing is that in the 5 or so years we’ve been together, an enormous amount of challenges befell us that truly and thoroughly tested our love, resolve, communication, commitment, and teamwork as a couple.
For instance, deaths, illnesses, IVF, childlessness, health issues, job transitions, home challenges including a terrible fire in our home, and countless, countless others.
Sometimes we feel we’ve been together already for 20 years or more, haha!
So while Life didn’t give me the opportunity to be a mother in the traditional sense, it definitely gave me the MASSIVE gift of a truly beautiful, fulfilling and healthy marriage. 💖
Not that we don’t have our spats.
But both being coaching, psychology and self-leadership professionals, we do reflect and talk a great deal about what works, what doesn’t and how to build loving, respectful and creative solutions to our challenges, inside and outside the relationship.
As Charlie says so well, 👉 “it’s a whole different world to live and love with someone who truly understands you, where you feel deeply loved and supported, with whom you can be your absolute authentic self, and still feel positively challenged to try, explore, grow, fail and live the life vision you have for yourself.”
It’s not always easy or pretty, but the work is worth the joy that comes on the other end.
What is YouAreOne Couples Coaching
So here’s what we DO specialize in our YouAreOne Couples Coaching:
- Clarifying your individual and mutual goals and decisions
- Managing work and life transitions and crises
- Improving couple communication, empathy and peace
- Optimizing mutual work-life balance
- Increasing a sense of mutual LOVE, respect and appreciation
Here’s what we likely DON’T do. But in case you’re on the fence, just call us for a FREE CONSULTATION and we can figure it out together:
- Mediating divorce conditions
- Addressing severe physical or emotional abuse
- Severe sexual challenges
(these are best handled by experts specialized in these areas)
Coaching, also for singles
Also, if you’re a single person and have had recurring challenges in your previous relationships that you’d like to resolve, give us a call.
All this work is deeply connected and while no one can truly guarantee you finding a partner (if that is what you seek), there are many ways to work through, make peace, and find renewed confidence, security and self-love in ways you perhaps never imagined.
Contact us at nev@nevcoaching.com to tell us confidentially about your particular case and we will take it from there. 🚀
LOVE is there for us all.
And you deserve to be respected, appreciated and LOVED for the unique individual that you are.
As the famous saying goes “there’s a top for every jar”.
And there really is. ✨
My top was a tough one to find, truly. But I found it and so can you if you so choose.
Much love and I so look forward to hearing from you.
